Try to prevent Divorce before Marriage

Bismillah wa Alhamdulillah wa salatu w salaam ala rusulillah


IN REALITY MANY OF OUR MISTAKES ARE NOT MADE INSIDE OF THE MARRIAGE THEY ARE MADE WHEN CHOOSING A PARTNER SO EVERY MUSLIM SHOULD DELIBERATE DEEPLY WHEN CHOOSING A SPOUSE AND ALSO CONSIDER THE FACT THAT THEY ARE LIKEWISE CHOOSING A PARENT FOR THEIR CHILDREN, PRAY ISTIKHARA BEFORE HAND AND SEEK ADVICE FROM A KNOWLEDGEABLE AND EXPERIENCED PERSON. FOR INDEED THAT'S ANOTHER AREA WHERE MISTAKES ARE MADE WE SEEK ADVICE FROM A PERSON WITH KNOWLEDGE AND NO EXPERIENCE SO THEY GIVE ADVICE BASED ON WHAT THEY HAVE HEARD FROM SCHOLARS OR READ IN BOOKS YET THEY DON'T HAVE THE EXPERIENCE THAT TELLS THEM WHEN AND HOW TO APPLY CERTAIN PRINCIPLES, ON THE OTHER HAND YOU HAVE THE ONE WITH EXPERIENCE AND NO KNOWLEDGE WHO DOESN'T UNDERSTAND THE RELIGIOUS RULING CONNECTED TO CERTAIN SITUATIONS AND THEY BOTH CAUSE MORE HARM THAN GOOD. SO LET US ALL PLAN MARRIAGE BEFORE THE MARRIAGE AND NOT AFTER THE FIRST DIVORCE IS PRONOUNCED OR AFTER A KHULA IS REQUESTED. AND IF THE MARRIAGE FAILS AFTER THAT THEN KNOW THAT IT WAS FROM THE QADR BE PATIENT AND ALLAH WILL REPLACE IT WITH THAT WHICH IS BETTER AS ALLAH SAYS: (NO MISFORTUNE CAN BEFALL ON EARTH OR IN YOURSELVES EXCEPT THAT IT IS WRITTEN IN A CLEAR BOOK BEFORE IT TAKES PLACE AND THAT IS EASY FOR ALLAH SO THAT NO ONE BECOMES DISTRESSED OVER A MISFORTUNE THAT BEFELL OR BECOMES ARROGANT BECAUSE OF A FAVOR BESTOWED AND ALLAH DOES NOT LOVE ARROGANT BOASTERS) {Al Hadeed 22}

AND MAY ALLAH GRANT SUCCESS TO ALL.